Today was a “but” day for me. No, not a “butt” day…a “but” day. Infinitely different kinds of days but separated by one tiny thing. Let me explain. My day did not start out well. First it started early. I was up at 2:45 OMG butt crack of dawn sweating, heart racing from a nightmare. I spent the next 30 minutes praying and just as I was falling back asleep my precious husband’s alarm for work went off at 3:15am (which makes me feel much worse for him than me because that is crazy early to get up. Thankfully he doesn’t do that every day!) He leaves about 4:00am, at which time our black lab decides she is going to pout that Daddy left home that early and decides to pace the room for a while. Then 5:45 comes and I wake up to make sure the teenager did not sleep though her alarms…yes plural! By 6:25 I hear my 10 year old breathing at the door. He knows he’s not allowed to come into our room until 6:30, so he stands there…mr. mouthbreather…and waits. I drive the teenager to the bus stop because it is snowing (YAY snowing!!! I do love me some snow) and I am just a terribly nice person and didn’t want her to freeze her butt off because she did just so happen to leave her jacket at school yesterday. Grrrrrrrr. I get back home a few minutes later after a honking altercation with the school bus that I just REALLY don’t want to get in to…to awaken the 3rd grumpy monkey. #3 is NOT a morning person and #2 is incredibly gifted at hacking off non-morning people (your truly included). I did finally get everyone off to school and had a precious breakfast with an awesome friend. Once that finished it became errand day, i.e. big massive grocery shopping day at 2 different stores….and it’s a full on blizzard. As I said before I LOVE SNOW but not when it’s falling down the back of my jacket as I try to load 2 weeks worth of groceries for a family of 5 in the back of the minivan. I get grocery shopping done and come home to a 3 foot tall pile of clean clothes that have yet to be folded (yep, they are still staring at me front across the room as I write this and I think the pile is getting bigger. Laundry procreation is one of the great mysteries of house work life. That and the one sock out of the dryer phenomenon. The morning dishes were still piled up in the sink. The house looks like the Tasmanian devil tore through here at epic speeds and the snow is piling up to a solid 5 inches that need to be shoveled before leaving the house to pick up the boys because we face north and if you face north in a colder climate you KNOW…always shovel before driving or you will have ice tracks on your driveway until May. Top all that off with the worst back pain I’ve had in a month. Get the day? Had that day before? Now, before you start feeling bad for me (I hope you don’t but if you do…stop right there). All this above story was the “butt”…not the “but”.
The “but” totally changed my day. The “but” day is when life is biting you in the butt BUT you CHOOSE God! Today the “but” was me choosing God and choosing to see all the amazing blessings He has given to me. The “but” showed up as I was able to walk through the grocery store sans kids and distractions (yes, my children are grocery store soul sucking distractions when they keep asking “Mom, can I have”) and pray for some friends looking for a rental home and to pray for my daddy and his medical stuff today. The “but” showed up as I was able to stop and say no to the insanely messy house and yes to a quiet time with God. Me and my Bible and some good good time. The “but” was snow shoveling enough to get out to pick up the monkey brothers and then have fun shoveling the rest with my 10 year old and teach him how to do it. The “but” is when I was able to chose to be thankful for the groceries and the job God has given to Gregg and the money God has provided so we could purchase al these groceries and choosing not to whine that I had to put them all away. The “but” is looking at that pile of laundry and smiling because I know we are blessed to have clothes…and not just clothes, an abundance of clothes.
Here’s what I know. A “but” day is a choice. I am sad to admit that I don’t always choose to have a “but” day. Often I embrace the grumpiness that life brings. I choose to stress rather than seek joy. I choose to try and take control instead of turning it all back over to God who is really in control anyway. I know that as I choose, it does not mean that my house will magically be clean and the dishes will magically be done and the laundry will fold itself, although I do secretly wish that I was Mrs. Weasley and I could do magic housecleaning. It does not mean that my children will be happy go lucky every minute and be angelic and calm…angelic and calm????yeah, like that ever happens in this house. We are all way to spicy and fun for that 😉 But today I chose to have a different day. I chose to not embrace the frustrations but instead to run after God, to love on Him and learn from Him and my day turned out so so so much better than it would have had I chose to be grumpy. Next time you’re having one of “those” days, make the choice…have a “but” day. Let go, give it all over to God and enjoy!